Why Does My Dog Steal Things & How to Stop It
Your dog steals items because theyâre fun, attention-grabbing, or curious. To fix it: - Prevent access to tempting items. - Ignore the behavior completelyâno eye contact, no talking. - Teach "leave it" through consistent training. - Reward good choices with toys and attention.
Why Dogs Steal Objects
Dogs steal things for several reasons. Some do it for funâespecially during games like "you canât catch me" or "tug-of-war" with forbidden items like shoes or socks. Others steal just to get attention, even if it means being scolded. From their point of view, any reaction is better than being ignored.
Some dogs are natural collectors, gathering items and hiding them in a favorite spot. Others become "finders-keepers," believing they own anything they find and may growl or hide when you try to take it back. This behavior often stems from curiosity, a desire to play, or a need for stimulation.
The Role of Attention and Games
Stealing often turns into a game when you reactâchasing, yelling, or trying to take the item back. This is exactly what your dog wants. The more attention you give, the more likely they are to repeat the behavior. Even asking for a "drop it" gives your dog the attention theyâre seeking.
Instead of engaging, ignore the theft completely. Donât look at your dog, speak to them, or move toward them. Pretend the item doesnât exist. This breaks the cycle of reward and helps your dog learn that stealing doesnât get them what they want.
Prevention Is Key
The best way to stop stealing is to prevent it from happening in the first place. Puppy-proof your home by keeping tempting itemsâlike shoes, socks, pens, or foodâout of reach. Use management tools like leashes, baby gates, or crates to limit access.
If your dog has a habit of stealing, avoid giving them old shoes or toys to chew on, even if they seem like safe options. Your dog may not distinguish between old and new shoes, and the smell of your feet can make any shoe seem like fair game.
Reward Good Behavior Instead
When your dog chooses to play with their own toys instead of stealing, praise them and give a treat. This teaches them that good choices lead to rewards. Make sure your dog knows what you want them to doâchewing on their own toys is the right behavior.
If your dog brings back a stolen item, donât scold. Instead, calmly ask them to drop it, then reward them with a treat and attention. This turns the moment into a positive training opportunity.
Frequently asked questions
Should I chase my dog if they steal something?
No. Chasing gives your dog the attention they want and reinforces the behavior. Ignore the theft and redirect their focus with a distraction.
Can I use a treat to get my dog to drop something?
Yes, but only if youâre not reinforcing the stealing. Use the treat as a reward for dropping the item, not as a trade for the theft itself.
Sources
- Juvenile Delinquent Dogs The Complete Guide to Saving Your Sanity and Successfully Living With Your Adolescent Dog · Sue Brown · Chapter on juvenile behavior
- Zak Georges Guide to a Well-Behaved Dog · Zak George, Dina Roth Port · Chapter 11: Stealing
- The Puppy Survival Guide Dogwise Solutions · Sarah Whitehead · Section on stealing
â ïž Important: this article is a literature summary, not a case diagnosis. Every dog is different â breed, age, and history all affect the plan. For severe anxiety or aggressive barking, contact a certified behavior trainer or veterinary behaviorist.