How to Stop Your Dog from Taking Kids' Toys
Dogs may take children’s toys due to curiosity, boredom, or resource guarding. - Use scent to distinguish dog toys from baby toys (e.g., mint or perfume). - Rotate toys daily to keep them novel. - Teach your dog to “drop it” and redirect to their own toys. - Never let children pull toys from the dog—always involve an adult.
Why Dogs Take Children’s Toys
Dogs often take children’s toys because they resemble their own toys—especially soft, squeaky, or plush items. Some dogs may not distinguish between a child’s stuffed animal and their own chew toy. This can lead to conflict, especially if the dog feels the need to protect the item. In some cases, the dog may simply be bored or seeking attention. The behavior can escalate if the dog learns that taking a toy leads to play or interaction.
Use Scent to Distinguish Toys
To help your dog recognize which toys belong to them, rub a fragrant herb like mint or rosemary on dog toys, or spray a unique perfume (not one you use yourself) on them. Dogs have a much stronger sense of smell than humans, so a light scent is enough to signal ownership. If your dog goes for a child’s toy, use a command like “drop it,” reward them with a treat when they release it, and redirect them to their scented dog toy.
Rotate Toys to Maintain Interest
Just like children, dogs can get bored with the same toys every day. To keep your dog engaged, rotate their toys every few days. Leave only a few out at a time and store the rest out of reach. This keeps the toys novel and interesting. Choose toys your dog actually likes—such as soft plush, hard rubber, or squeaky ones—and make sure they’re safe. Avoid toys that can be easily destroyed or swallowed.
Train the “Drop It” Command
Teach your dog to release a toy on command. When they take a child’s toy, say “drop it” firmly. Reward them with a treat when they let go. Then offer one of their own scented toys as a replacement. This teaches them that giving up a toy leads to a better one. Practice this regularly so the command becomes reliable. Always supervise interactions between children and dogs to prevent accidents.
Keep Toys Secure and Separate
Store baby toys in a place your dog cannot access—like a high shelf or a closed toy box. This prevents unsupervised access and reduces the chance of your dog grabbing something they shouldn’t. If your dog has a favorite toy, keep it in a safe space when children are around. This also helps prevent accidental resource guarding, where the dog becomes protective of their toy when a child gets near.
Involve Children in the Solution
Teach children to never try to take a toy from the dog. Instead, they should come to an adult immediately. Say, “If the dog takes your toy, come and get me.” This protects both the child and the dog. It also builds a habit of seeking help rather than acting impulsively. When the adult steps in, they can use the “drop it” command and offer a replacement toy.
Frequently asked questions
Can I give my dog old children’s toys?
No—old children’s toys can look like dog toys and cause confusion. It’s better to use dog-specific toys that don’t resemble baby items.
What if my dog keeps stealing toys even after training?
Ensure your dog has enough engaging toys and that they’re rotated regularly. If the behavior continues, consider using food puzzles or interactive toys to increase motivation.
Sources
- The Happy Puppy Handbook · Pippa Mattinson · Chapter on toys and puppy behavior
- Tell Your Dog You're Pregnant · Dr Lewis Kirkham · Section on toy sounds and safety
- From Fearful to Fear Free · Marty Becker, Lisa Radosta, Mikkel Becker · Section on resource guarding
- Juvenile Delinquent Dogs · Sue Brown · Section on toy rotation and training
⚠️ Important: this article is a literature summary, not a case diagnosis. Every dog is different — breed, age, and history all affect the plan. For severe anxiety or aggressive barking, contact a certified behavior trainer or veterinary behaviorist.